How Does Subtle Energy Flow Impact Relationships?

Subtle Energy Flow, Resources and Interactions
We are each responsible for our energy sources and also for how we flow that energy out into the world. Since this is an unconscious process for most it does not always follow that optimal pathways are chosen!

In our interactions with others we are sharing energy. If both people are benefiting then both feel good with the interchange. If one is needy, has a hidden agenda or has chronic patterns of sourcing their energy from outside of themselves than the latter can feel wonderful after interaction but the other will feel unsettled, irritable, angry or fatigued.

Subtle Energy Flow and Negative Patterns
As children we learn methods to gain approval, love, support, attention, or recognition. A classic example is that of a child triggering negative attention. We all need the energy of love to survive. A young child does not have many options to choose from when considering his or her sources of energy. It usually must be the parents who may not be able to give it at all or may not be able to give it in the amounts or ways the child requires. So the child instinctively finds the means to get the attention (energy) to flow his/her way. This creates negative patterns within the relationship as well as within the individuals involved. It is not hard to see how this would then get transferred to a generalized energetic pattern that would emerge in other relationships. As an adult this person may even have a great deal of cognitive ability to understand their past sources of problems, but if they have not healed the original ’wound’ and been able to rectify their needs for energy in an appropriate way for them, then this pattern would reemerge, especially under stress. This can then cause problems in their adult relationships.

Consciousness Supports Positive Subtle Energy Flow
How we have been treated, what we observed on our journey through life all contributed to the formation of beliefs regarding how to manage, control, obtain or give away energy of all types. With consciousness we can learn to build and flow energy in positive ways and improve not only our health but also our relationships.