“Pay attention to the whispers so we won’t have to listen to the screams.” Cherokee Proverb
Stress has been on my mind a lot lately. As I watch what is happening on the world stage , to me and to the people around me, it seems important to take a closer look at what stress is and what we can do about it.
Many people seem to have the notion that stress is something that happens out there–in the ethers— and no inner impact or effect. This is a dangerous position as it leaves you victim to many negative results E.G. poor health, disrupted relationships, and poor performance.
Definition of Stress
Stress is anything that causes us to adapt, change, grow—even when it is positive. Positive stress has less of a detrimental effect on us but we still must be aware of what is happening internally.
Types of Stress
Generally there are two types of stress: necessary and unnecessary. Unnecessary stress is that which we can eliminate by an honest inventory of where we are scattering our energy, spinning our wheels or not standing for our beliefs, values and self care.
Necessary stress is that which we cannot, or do not want to, reduce or eliminate. This requires that we work with knowledge and awareness in a holistic way to care for mind,body and spirit.
Stress: The Cliff Notes
Stress is a whole person process! The very real physiological effects of stress may not be readily apparent even when they begin to affect our ability to concentrate/focus, maintain emotional equilibrium or spiritual experience.
If we encounter a physically dangerous situation the stress response tends to be re-balanced naturally. Unfortunately most of our stresses are psychological so when our fight/flight response gets triggered and we get a cascade of neuro-hormaonal changes that affect every system in our body…we are stuck with it unless we provide an intervention of some kind. Exercise takes care of some of the accumulated effects but it does not reach create an inner environment conducive to healing, release, and rejuvenation. Deep relaxation and meditation are the means to create this internal environment.
With deep relaxation and meditation we reach a level where mind and body can really clear our the toxins and heal at a cellular level to help not only release what has happened but to also create a stress hardiness that allows us to be less vulnerable to future stress.
Making ourselves a priority and developing a self-care practice that includes 20 minutes of some form of meditation twice a day (ideally at sunrise and sunset) can prevent much greater distress later when the bill for unrelenting stress comes due!
Our recording Relaxation 101 was expressly designed to deliver you into a healing state that release tension on all levels, help heal the adrenal glands and restore mental clarity.